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Newborn baby present for an Emirati couple

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:04

Hi

I need to buy a present for a newborn baby of an Emirati couple. Is there something i should be aware of, something special they will be expecting - any help will do as i am completely lost....

thank you

Evie

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EW MASTER
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:39
It should be a bit chic TBH. The Babyshop will not do in this case. i see what you mean....should i be aware of something that may insult or alienate them, due to cultural differences? No, definitely not. I don't know how close you are to them or what your financial situation is like, but if you can afford it, a pair of Baby Dior shoes or a Burberry sleeper would be perfect, for example. This is quite a statement. Are you saying that it is all about brands with Emiratis?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:22
To be honest i have not set a budget yet - i prefer to keep it a bit flexible so that i buy something i consider aesthetically pleasing. Within reason, of course. Any specific shops you would suggest? Also, should i not get something for the mother, i normally get a box of chocolates or flowers but i am open to cultural adaptation..! umm no i would not, that would be too personal...any gold shops will do:) excellent, thanks so much!!! :) you are welcome:)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:21
To be honest i have not set a budget yet - i prefer to keep it a bit flexible so that i buy something i consider aesthetically pleasing. Within reason, of course. Any specific shops you would suggest? Also, should i not get something for the mother, i normally get a box of chocolates or flowers but i am open to cultural adaptation..! umm no i would not, that would be too personal...any gold shops will do:) excellent, thanks so much!!! :)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:19
To be honest i have not set a budget yet - i prefer to keep it a bit flexible so that i buy something i consider aesthetically pleasing. Within reason, of course. Any specific shops you would suggest? Also, should i not get something for the mother, i normally get a box of chocolates or flowers but i am open to cultural adaptation..! umm no i would not, that would be too personal...any gold shops will do:)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:14
To be honest i have not set a budget yet - i prefer to keep it a bit flexible so that i buy something i consider aesthetically pleasing. Within reason, of course. Any specific shops you would suggest? Also, should i not get something for the mother, i normally get a box of chocolates or flowers but i am open to cultural adaptation..!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:10
Gold is expected for baby presents! it is the culture, not branded stuff! there are varieties that you can choose from depending on your budget! oh ....i am not sure i am allowed to buy gold for a client's baby to be honest....but then it is part of the local culture, right?! Why are you not allowed to buy gold for a client's baby??? I do not understand..if you are going to buy a present for a client's baby, then according to the culture, gold is expected especially something that has Quranic verses or sayings ie pendants, and that is greatly valued because that means you are giving them god's blessing in gold so to speak:)) It just may not be allowed as it may be considered unprofessional or even a form of bribery. Your suggestion sounds very appropriate though. Where can i find those jewellery and are they different for boys and girls? well, the way i see it, if you are worried that it might be considered unprofessional, then that should include buying a gift in general.. I am half arab, and raised in the middle east, and my opinion is that it is not considered unprofessional to buy a present for a new born as long as you stay within the limit..you can find lovely gold baby stuff for even less than 200 dirhams..I dunno what ur budget is, but a simple baby necklace with a Quranic verse on it is very appreciated.. <em>edited by Annabelle09 on 02/10/2011</em>
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:10
Honestly?! Aquaintances have to buy gold as a baby gift? With the high number or babies born to so many married couples here how on earth can anyone afford it? Surely you'd be buying gold bangles several times a month! From family sure, but I'm shocked at the implication that a mere friend or aquaintance should buy designer branded baby clothes or gold as a minimum...maybe I'm super poor though lol! You can buy a simple gold pendant or a bracelet for less than 200 dirhams, which is the same price of a dress at mothercare..gold has a special meaning in the arab culture.. Fair enough, I was sort of picturing a big ol' gold bar :) I think it was the suggestion of Baby Dior shoes that threw me! if the gold bar is the standard over here i am willing to have another 5 babies.. If am lucky they will all come together!
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:08
Honestly?! Aquaintances have to buy gold as a baby gift? With the high number or babies born to so many married couples here how on earth can anyone afford it? Surely you'd be buying gold bangles several times a month! From family sure, but I'm shocked at the implication that a mere friend or aquaintance should buy designer branded baby clothes or gold as a minimum...maybe I'm super poor though lol! You can buy a simple gold pendant or a bracelet for less than 200 dirhams, which is the same price of a dress at mothercare..gold has a special meaning in the arab culture.. Fair enough, I was sort of picturing a big ol' gold bar :) I think it was the suggestion of Baby Dior shoes that threw me!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:04
Gold is expected for baby presents! it is the culture, not branded stuff! there are varieties that you can choose from depending on your budget! oh ....i am not sure i am allowed to buy gold for a client's baby to be honest....but then it is part of the local culture, right?! Why are you not allowed to buy gold for a client's baby??? I do not understand..if you are going to buy a present for a client's baby, then according to the culture, gold is expected especially something that has Quranic verses or sayings ie pendants, and that is greatly valued because that means you are giving them god's blessing in gold so to speak:)) It just may not be allowed as it may be considered unprofessional or even a form of bribery. Your suggestion sounds very appropriate though. Where can i find those jewellery and are they different for boys and girls?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:03
Honestly?! Aquaintances have to buy gold as a baby gift? With the high number or babies born to so many married couples here how on earth can anyone afford it? Surely you'd be buying gold bangles several times a month! From family sure, but I'm shocked at the implication that a mere friend or aquaintance should buy designer branded baby clothes or gold as a minimum...maybe I'm super poor though lol! You can buy a simple gold pendant or a bracelet for less than 200 dirhams, which is the same price of a dress at mothercare..gold has a special meaning in the arab culture..
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 21:00
Gold is expected for baby presents! it is the culture, not branded stuff! there are varieties that you can choose from depending on your budget! oh ....i am not sure i am allowed to buy gold for a client's baby to be honest....but then it is part of the local culture, right?! Why are you not allowed to buy gold for a client's baby??? I do not understand..if you are going to buy a present for a client's baby, then according to the culture, gold is expected especially something that has Quranic verses or sayings ie pendants, and that is greatly valued because that means you are giving them god's blessing in gold so to speak:))
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:59
Honestly?! Aquaintances have to buy gold as a baby gift? With the high number or babies born to so many married couples here how on earth can anyone afford it? Surely you'd be buying gold bangles several times a month! From family sure, but I'm shocked at the implication that a mere friend or aquaintance should buy designer branded baby clothes or gold as a minimum...maybe I'm super poor though lol!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:50
Gold is expected for baby presents! it is the culture, not branded stuff! there are varieties that you can choose from depending on your budget! oh ....i am not sure i am allowed to buy gold for a client's baby to be honest....but then it is part of the local culture, right?!
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EW GURU
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:47
Definately gold.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:45
Gold is expected for baby presents! it is the culture, not branded stuff! there are varieties that you can choose from depending on your budget!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:36
i have just asked 'Ali'....! I will post the answer here if you are interested, thanks for the advice!
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:22
thanks Anon I am not close to the couple but i know the father well, he is a client. Do you think that would be an issue? I really cannot tell you what is appropriate. Dramaqn also has a good suggestion.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:21
thanks Anon I am not close to the couple but i know the father well, he is a client. Do you think that would be an issue?
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:20
Not entirely sure, but in Iranian culture, people buy gold as presents for newborns. Gold coins or gold baby jewelry.
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:17
It should be a bit chic TBH. The Babyshop will not do in this case. i see what you mean....should i be aware of something that may insult or alienate them, due to cultural differences? No, definitely not. I don't know how close you are to them or what your financial situation is like, but if you can afford it, a pair of Baby Dior shoes or a Burberry sleeper would be perfect, for example. If you're not that close to them, then just get the mother a box of chocolates, but make sure they don't have liquor in them.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:11
It should be a bit chic TBH. The Babyshop will not do in this case. i see what you mean....should i be aware of something that may insult or alienate them, due to cultural differences?
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 02 October 2011 - 20:09
It should be a bit chic TBH. The Babyshop will not do in this case.
 
 

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