Does anyone get photos taken of there children? I find people will stop, tourists, locals ect and start taking happy snaps of DD? This sends me right over the edge!
we luckily have been asked when they want to take pics of our DSs. Both with dark hair but light blue eyes. Luckily I usually have my camera with me too so if its a local girl I say only if I can take a picture of you with them :)
Does anyone get photos taken of there children? I find people will stop, tourists, locals ect and start taking happy snaps of DD? This sends me right over the edge!
This is so common here, DD was about 18months when a male spinneys worker undid her from the pram and picked her up. I go there every morning and am always quite friendly with them however he wasnt interested in trying to wrangler back in the pushchair once she was free. Even now that she is 2.5years i find teenage arab girls go to pick her up when we were walking in the mall which is quite strange for DD as all she sees is this black shape coming for her and touching her. But alas in some cultures children are community property........i now say sorry dont touch her as she is really sick. :)
Yet another one with my new DD who was 5weeks at the time, in the baby bjorn sleeping about 5 late teen girls surrounded me in a sporting store while i was on the phone to my mum, gesturing to take my sleeping new born out of the baby bjorn to hold. Had to hang up on my mum to get my wits about me to politely decline and escape the store. Fair hair and blue blue eyes on both DD's seem to attract alot of attention here.
Hi,
I don't know what we can really do against it Each time we go at the mall there is someone to touch my son's cheeks They don't ask they just act and each time I am obliged to tell them No, Don't touch him!!
Our daughters and sons are not puppies and toys They are not made for any material purpose
The other day I was so furious I wanted to put in front of my son, on his pram, a big paper on which would be written Private property, this is not a toy but a human being, otherwise MOMZILLA is going to bite you
<em>edited by Baklawas on 10/02/2011</em>
DS was passed around like a prize ferret when I was at the clinic having his jabs recently. But if he'd been sleeping, I'd have swatted them away. Fair enough if he's wide awake and wants to play but what's that saying - never wake a sleeping baby?! I know exactly what you mean.
If it happens again, ask if the person also wants to hold her when she starts screaming blue murder because she's been woken up. And tell them she tends to projectile vomit when she's been screaming blue murder for a while.
My DD has reached that cute 3 month age where she's not so scarily small anymore and is all smiles and giggles. Suddenly everyone wants to hold her and it's getting on my wick.
Last weekend we went for afternoon drinks with a whole group and DD was quietly sleeping in her buggy. Suddenly one of the girls wanted to pick her up citing 'let me hold her, I look good with babies' and was rather insistent, even though DD was sleeping. This really annoyed me as picking up DD was clearly just for effect plus she had been drinking. Eventually I transferred DD into the Baby Bjorn and attached her safely to me! Finally I think she got the message...
Then today I bumped into a male friend of a friend who asked if he could 'borrow' my DD sometime to walk around DIFC as 'babies are great for pulling women' once again saying how good he looked holding a baby. C'mon! Aside the obvious fact that I'd never ever let my DD be 'borrowed' by a man (or anyone) I hardly know she's not a puppy! Grrr!
Has this happened to anyone else? It's weird, right?