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Answering those awkward doctors questions for fertility?

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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 21 May 2012 - 15:48
Thanks so much ladies! We are seeing Dr Fakih next week. We are not prudish about what we reveal at all but we are also very aware of the sensitivities of living here in UAE where some subjects are taboo. What nationality is Dr Fakih I wonder? I am apprehensive about IVF as I am not sure it can/ will work and the financial costs etc and am keen to adopt but my DH will not consider adoption and is willing to try. Trips terrify me :-) too He has an american passport but his origins are arab :) These questions will not be asked by the Dr they are asked by his nurse :)
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 21 May 2012 - 15:15
Thanks so much ladies! We are seeing Dr Fakih next week. We are not prudish about what we reveal at all but we are also very aware of the sensitivities of living here in UAE where some subjects are taboo. What nationality is Dr Fakih I wonder? I am apprehensive about IVF as I am not sure it can/ will work and the financial costs etc and am keen to adopt but my DH will not consider adoption and is willing to try. Trips terrify me :-) too
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 21 May 2012 - 14:35
I went for IVF here also. I told them the truth...tried for 5 years but only married for 1.5 at the time...and there was no issue. I think it's important that they know the complete truth so they know what they're dealing with. As for your husband getting another pregnant as long as it wasnt here in Dubai at too shouldn't be a problem. Good luck.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 21 May 2012 - 12:43
I would think that you should go ahead and answer the questions truthfully. I doubt there will be problems, and it is important that the doctor gets the full and accurate picture of your reproductive health to give you the right treatment. On another note though, if you feel very uneasy answering these questions with he current doctor you are seeing it might be wise to find a doctor you feel more comfortable with.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 21 May 2012 - 12:42
I have a child from a previous relationship and to be honest I am sure that they have heard it all before, just out of interest where are you going as I think it is very important that you feel comfortable with the Dr, I had the added issue that Dh is a national and normally they like to keep this stuff "in the house" so too speak, but the first Dr we went to we were not comfortable so we looked for another Dr and the second was was amazing.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 20 May 2012 - 19:03
Hi ladies. My DH and I are looking into fertility treatment and starting off with just a check up of us both to see if things are working ok. However, I wonder about how to answer the more awkward questions about our medical history without stepping over boundaries? Like for instance - how long have we been trying or not using contraception? The answer is 2 years but we only got married a few months ago. And my DH has made his ex pregnant too but they weren't married at the time. Etc ... How to answer questions without raising eyebrows or causing offence? What did you all experience, especially if you have a mildly "checkered" history like ours?
 
 

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