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am i doing something wrong unknowingly?

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 28 August 2012 - 18:25
No, you're not doing anything wrong and I'm sure your instinct tells you the same. I took daily walks with my boy at that age and it did us both some good! When it was too hot, I just went out for a little while or stood out in the balcony. About covering up, do what feels right. Even in winters here, my baby just wore two layers of cotton! But I always kept a cotton blanket with me if it got too cold. Just trust your instincts (regarding everything) and you'll be a content mother :)
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 28 August 2012 - 12:59
thanks kiwispiers :) i have been asked also why my baby is not swaddled with cap,mittens and socks atleast!! i just smile and say he does not like them :) why to dress so much even when the babies are all red and sweaty.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 28 August 2012 - 10:18
If your baby is happy then there is nothing wrong with taking him for a walk. It actually takes 2-3 years for the immune system to fully develop, clearly you are not going to sit inside your apartment for that long ;) So long as when you are home you have access to clean water, safe transportation and you are not giving your baby to every random stranger on the street to cuddle and kiss then by all means go home, its very beneficial for your baby to have time with their extended family, every time my baby sees his grandparents they teach him something new. I would make sure you have the right vaccines done, things like rotavirus, hepatitis etc and wash your hands a lot if you think you are in a germy area. One thing you will learn as a first time mum is there will always be someone who feels the need to tell you what you are doing is wrong, and truthfully, you will make the same judgements when you look at other parents. I was forever getting told to put socks on my baby, while I would look back at these bright red babies wrapped in polyester padded outfits while the parents wore t-shirts and wonder why on earth they would make their child so uncomfortable. Do what feels right to you, and listen to your baby, they will tell you if they are uncomfortable or unhappy, thats a much better indicator than the opinion of your neighbor or the guy down the street.
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 28 August 2012 - 09:59
i take my 4 month old baby for walk every day late evening near about 8 pm. who so ever sees me in our building says "oh don't take him out.its too hot!" but my baby loves to be outside and does not complain once. if he cries or is fussy i always return back. on the days when its too humid i just stroll him downstairs or take him to bur juman(very near to my home) i know there will be different opinions on this but shouldn't i tak ehim for a walk? he is fussy on the days when we don't go out and then he is all happy once he looks around.baby also gets bored being coped up in teh apartment whole day with only my face to see.dh tries but still returns late from work. i also get to hear that i should postpone my trip back to home country ( i am going in nov to india). its not good for the baby. we have already taken a trip with him to turkey. i know their immune system develops by 6 months. am i doing wrong in taking him outside? being a FTP really worries you over each and every advice and details. :)
 
 

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