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Latest post on 10 February 2014 - 12:24

To me, you sound like a horrible, ungrateful, Momzilla. Your children won't benefit from your controlling ways. A bit harsh and unwarranted, the OP did say ''Maybe the pregnancy hormones are playing a part...'' OP do you think this might have to do more with your insecurity about losing control/spending lesser time with your DS now that a LO is on the way? I somehow can relate to you as when my DS was born I was so paranoid that my MIL will take over that i resented everything she did for/with my son (I had just joined back work when she came over to stay for a couple of months and had developed feeling of not being a good mother). You need to give in a bit and know that this is temporary and there is definitely no permanent harm coming out of it. Be grateful of the time you are getting off doing everything on your own - also appreciate your MIL for these gestures - you will see how much that helps in turning her to your way of thinking instead of always complaining or finding faults - which will make her more rigid in her way of thinking... All the best on your new pregnancy and take it easy...

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Latest post on 10 February 2014 - 12:07

Think you are totally overreacting. First of all, your MIL got up *in the middle of the night* to **help you** so you could rest. If there was no other way to calm him, then so be it. Second, one midnight snack won't kill your 2 year old. Third, the role of grandmothers is to spoil their grandchildren. You'll learn that eventually. To me, you sound like a horrible, ungrateful, Momzilla. Your children won't benefit from your controlling ways.

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Latest post on 10 February 2014 - 11:48

If it was a maid or friend on a visit who fed him after midnight, I would be livid, but it is your DS' grandmother, and given that she is already taking care of him for a few hours (and presumably uses her judgement on what to feed at that time), I personally do not think the same outrage (as in the case of a friend/maid) is justified

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Latest post on 10 February 2014 - 11:46

Oh, I feel for you terribly: I have the same problems continuously in my family life. I am also very strict with routine, bedtime, hygiene etc much to the amusement of my MiL who thinks I am obsessive. I get to the stage where I feel as if I am parenting everyone in the family and it is exhausting. Of course, DH just stay way out of it all as he doesn't want to upset anyone. Errrrrrrr!!!!! There is little you can do to prevent you MiL from doing things her way. I guess she feels she has raised a family and knows better than you, a young mother. And, of course, you don't want to be disrespectful, either. I get a bit passive aggressive and say, Okay, give my DD whatever and then I make her go and brush her teeth again. And, when there is protest, I just say, well, complain to your grandmother, she is the one who gave you the food, not me. DD knows the rules! I am also strict about bathing daily etc - also a struggle with my MiL. I threw a big "wobbly" the other day and it quite shocked everyone as I usually just do everything and bite my tongue. I also work full time and do have the time or energy to be mothering and monitoring everyone in the house. MiL now says she is scared of me and I notice is bathing daily as well as no longer commenting on the early bedtime for my 9 year old DD (8pm). A win! Luckily my MiL is only visiting and will return home in about 2 months. GOOD LUCK <em>edited by mrsb. on 10/02/2014</em>

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Latest post on 10 February 2014 - 11:40

If you have explained your reasons and communicated your wishes on parenting, it is now up to your DH to sit down with HIS mother and explain that DS is your DS and you and your DH make the rules about his care and upbringing. Is that really fare when teh MIL is providing free childcare? Doesn't the OP need to give a little in this case? <em>edited by IzzyOnTheSeat on 10/02/2014</em>

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If you have explained your reasons and communicated your wishes on parenting, it is now up to your DH to sit down with HIS mother and explain that DS is your DS and you and your DH make the rules about his care and upbringing.

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Latest post on 10 February 2014 - 11:04

Can totally understand how you feel. You're not overreacting but its going to be difficult as you have to very sensitively explain your preferences to your MIL or otherwise not get her involved if your styles clash. I can imagine getting her to understand is going to be very tricky...good luck!!

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