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Tooth-brushing battles

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EW GURU
Latest post on 09 October 2013 - 10:53

Hi ladies

DD is 15 months old and brushing her teeth has become a real battle. She was ok with it when we first started but as time has gone on it's become more of a struggle. She just keeps saying "No", wriggles and squirms around, pushes the brush away, wont open her mouth, grabs the brush off me and throws it....

Yesterday i tried sitting her on the sink infront of the mirror so she could see what we were doing and that seemed to help a little (i think mostly as she distracted herself by grabbing all my makeup off the shelf and drawing on herself with my eyeliner!!) I try and encourage her to do some of it herself so she feels more in control, but it depends on her mood as to whether or not she'll play ball. I know when she has teeth coming through, her mouth will be more sensitive so i try to be really gentle.

Im really worried she's going to end up with grotty teeth. She doesn't drink sugary, fizzy drinks or juices, but she does still have formula as she's lactose intolerant, and she likes drinking Redbush tea occasionally which she has without milk, which can be a blessing as some days she just wont drink water but will drink this. On the days she just wont let me near her with a brush, I've tried using a thin flannel on my finger to rub over her teeth, but again, this just ended up as a fight.

Really dont want her to end up with stained teeth or tooth decay. Does anyone have any hints or tips on how I can make this easier all round??

TIA! xx

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 17 October 2013 - 02:30
I'm struggling with this myself with my 2 1/2 year old. He throws a hissy fit now ever more than before, because he has a newborn baby brother :) We recently had a dentist appointment and thank God, no cavities or rotting teeth, but that's largely due to the fact that I don't give him candies, juices and other sugary rubbish. I ask him nicely to brush his teeth morning and evening. If he agrees, then it generally goes smoothly and if after coaxing and bribing and reasoning- all fails... I have no choice but to hold him down open his mouth and force brush his teeth for him while he screams and wails. I know- it's terrible, but otherwise- this boy would never brush his teeth- and the way i see it- he can cry and scream all he wants now, but he'll thank me for this later in life lol
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 12 October 2013 - 23:00
With my LO (22m) its also up and down, sometimes very successful sometimes pointless. At the moment she sticks her tongue out right at the beginning (oh after shes sucked the toothpaste off and swallowed it) because she knows I clean it last. Its a phase thing.. just have to wait it out im sure. Sorry to go off topic slightly but dd's front two teeth are slightly brown on the edges. I have brushed her teeth since she started getting them (5m) and I have only started letting her have the occasional piece of cake or chocolate biscuit. I brush them regularly but not always after milk. They've had these stains sibce they came out. Does anyone know why this is?? And will they get worse??
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 October 2013 - 20:34
This is very common. My son hated having his teeth cleaned and I had battles with him. Basically always do it the same times morning and night - I always do his night clean last thing before bed after his last drink of milk and he only is allowed water after that. We found a song on the internet which was done to the tune of twinkle little star but twice as long as the other posters song. I printed it off and put little pictures of teeth with smiley faces on it and a cartoon tooth that had decay. Basically we would go in the bathroom and song the song and I would show him what nice clean teeth looked like and what teeth that were never cleaned looked like and we would do the cleaning. At first they were quick couple of second cleans but even if he only let me do a bit I would praise him. Gradually over time he is happy to have his teeth cleaned and will stand there and let me do it first, I do small areas and let him swallow/spit and speak inbetween areas and then I give him the brush and he does them again (barely!!). Also I read a good idea of if you can find a toy, whether plastic or stuffed, which has a mouth with teeth you can get them to clean the toys teeth and the toy gets a sticker, then if your child does their teeth they get a sticker too. Good luck
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 October 2013 - 21:35
Love the lyrics, going to learn them by heart for tomorrow's battle ;) Been there with both my children. I made up a song to the tune of "Twinkle, twinkle little star" which I sang at teeth cleaning time. Not the most amazing lyrics by any means but it helped us with the battles! Sing it slowly to prolong the brushing time.... "Twinkle, twinkle little teeth, Clean on top and clean beneath. Brush them till they're really clean, Scrub them till they really gleam. Twinkle, twinkle little teeth, Clean on top and clean beneath." Good luck!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 October 2013 - 15:57
Been there with both my children. I made up a song to the tune of "Twinkle, twinkle little star" which I sang at teeth cleaning time. Not the most amazing lyrics by any means but it helped us with the battles! Sing it slowly to prolong the brushing time.... "Twinkle, twinkle little teeth, Clean on top and clean beneath. Brush them till they're really clean, Scrub them till they really gleam. Twinkle, twinkle little teeth, Clean on top and clean beneath." Good luck!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 October 2013 - 15:06
I have major battles with my son who is nearly 3 now and always have. It has now become a job for myself and DH. My DH makes him laugh really hard so his mouth is open and I scrub as quick as I can its ridiculous. Am dying to hear more replies on this as anyone else I have asked doesn't have this issue.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 October 2013 - 11:13
LMAO-DXB sorry i dont really have any advice as i have the same battles with my 16 month old DS- i will be watching the thread closely though. from speaking to other friends i think its quite normal and they will grow out of it however like you i worry about his teeth. i 'brush' his teeth morning and evening during bathtime and i have dropped his milk after bath as i know you should brush teeth after milk at night so he now has milk before bath then i try and brush his teeth. sometimes he is fine other times he kicks up a fuss- not so much with my husband though actually. maybe see how you hsuband gets on with brushing her teeth?
 
 

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