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How much bm should a 9 mo be drinking?

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 12:42

Hi, I know that there are some breastfeeding specialists out there so I was wondering if someone knows how much breastmilk my son should be drinking.

We are doing BLW so there are days that he eats a lot of solids and others where he has almost none, though I am offering 3 solids meals a day and he generally has a fairly good appetite. I am exclusively bf-ing and ds weighs 9.1 kg for 74cm. I don't pump often, but when I do I only get about 50-60 ml so I usually pump multiple times if I need to leave ds and leave a bottle with 120-140 ml which he finishes. I have no idea how much he's actually getting at the breast but hope its closer to 120 than to 60 mls!

He is also still waking 2x in the night to eat. My ped said that I could stop feeding him, but I'm concerned that he's not getting enough milk during the day and might actually need the feeds. That being said I haven't had a full night's sleep for 9 months and would LOVE to sleep more than a few hours in a row. I am not willing to introduce formula, so if that's the only way to get them then I'll keep getting up, but if we could cut the night feeds without doing so I'd like to. Right now I am bf-ing 6-7x in a 24 hour period.

Thanks for your advice!
<em>edited by LJB2010 on 13/01/2011</em>

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 12:22
That sounds normal to me! DD is 8.5m and is 9.3kgs and 70cms - she has been crawling for a month and walking with a chair and coasting for 2 weeks ... we are doing BLW and she b-feeds 7-8 times a day. At night she has her last feed at 6pm, bed and wakes up around 3:30-4am for another feed and back down til 6:30-7am ... if you move you DS's bedtime earlier by 30mins you might find that he sleeps longer and may only wake up once a night. I have a rule that if DD wakes up before midnight I don't go to her - she has only done it twice in the last 2 months ... the more she wakes up for feeds the grumpier she is the next day and so am I! (oh as expressing is concerned ... I've barely managed to get 40mls at a time since DD was 5m ... she certainly is a chunky monkey so she is definitely getting all that she needs)
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 11:48
My DS was very big till about 9 months and then he stopped gaining weight so fast. I read somewhere that BF babies gain weight fast initially and then sort of slows down. But then again your LO is also crawling and stuff... mine dint crawl till after 10months! Yes, it does look like u are going to be up twice a night. U can also try putting the cot next to your bed, with the railing between the bed and cot off.. its not technically co-sleeping, but atleast you dont have to get up from bed twice a night.. hope it helps.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 11:11
Thanks for all of your responses! It sounds like the night feeds might be nutritionally necessary then. I don't think cosleeping is an option for us as ds is very active and loves to crawl and climb over us, so short of fencing in our bed there would be no way to keep him from falling off. Developmentally ds is a bit ahead of the game, but his weight has dropped from the 75% to the 50% (length is 75%-95%.) I'm not too worried about that though as he is so active that it makes sense to me that he would weigh less than some other babies his age who are not yet crawling and cruising and otherwise in perpetual motion. I will try to feed him a bit more during the day, but it sounds like I am resigned to night feeds for a while longer.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 03:23
The calculation when they're tiny babies is 180-190ml/kg/day. So calculate your LO's weight, multiply by 180 and then divide by the number of feeds you give them per day. Should give you an idea of how much to offer.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 22:22
Hi LJB2010! Don't worry your DS will definitely be getting more milk 'directly from the source' than you get when you are expressing! If you aren't regularly' expressing, you probably aren't that efficient at getting all the milk out, where as your DS is. I exclusively expressed (up to just over 9 months) DS was having between 1000mls - 1250mls of breastmilk in a 24 hour period, and was BLW as well. As everyone says, every baby is different, so volumes can really vary. If you are trying to get more rest at night, I would suggest trying to fill him up with food and breastmilk in the late afternoon as much as possible. By 9 months DS was having 5 'meals', 3 main and then 2 snacks for BLW - but honestly, he wasn't taking in a 'huge' volume of food like a puree baby would. I find if I let him graze through the later afternoon until he goes to sleep, he would sleep. I would occassionally have to wake at 11pm (ish) for a bottle, but otherwise he would go right through to 7 - 7.30am. But he seriously stuffs himself during the day, which is why he lasts quite well through the night. Hope that helps!
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EW GURU
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 20:14
LJB2010, every baby is different (I know, not very helpful is it ), but it sounds as if your son's intake is well within the realms of normal. In fact, although it's not that common, not every child is even ready for solids/complementary foods by 9 months - and they do just fine! It may help to remember that between the ages of 6 and 12 months, breastmilk is the *main* source of nutrition. (For this reason, it is often recommended to offer breastmilk before complementary food until the age of one.) After 12 months, it is a *significant* source of nutrition, but not the main source. BLW children eat just as much (or as little) as they need. Are there any causes for concern (e.g. dropping percentiles on the weight chart, developmental delay, your son not appearing contented)? If not, then it sounds as if you're both doing just brilliantly! On the night-feeding front, waking 2x a night is also well within the realms of normal at this age. You might find this page helpful: http://www.kellymom.com/parenting/sleep/sleep.html Although you may find that your son is not yet ready for night-weaning, she also links to a page on gentle methods for encouraging less night-time feeding which might help you to get a bit more sleep. I also like Dr Sears' suggestions here: http://www.askdrsears.com/html/2/t022900.asp If you decide that night-weaning is not the way to go just yet, you might consider bed-sharing if you are not already doing this (taking care to ensure that no risk factors are present) as a way to maximise your own sleep while continuing to feed at night. http://www.babyfriendly.org.uk/pdfs/sharingbedleaflet.pdf xx
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 19:51
DS is 8 months and I'm on 4 feeds - early morning, before lunch, before bed and one at night. He gets 3 substantial meals a day, we are not BLW. HTH.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 15:42
I cant really remember as my DS is 19months, but at 9 months, i think I was also Bfing my son about 6-7times in 24 hrs. And he was also on BLW too. My DS always slept for 6hrs a night from Day 1.. but till date thats the longest stretch i have slept after having him :) I personally am a big advocate of breastfeeding and I would like to shoot ur doc for asking u to stop breastfeeding. And its a excellent decision on your part that u aren't considering formula milk. :) Agreed we lose sleep for a year or two, but the benefit breastmilk has lasts a lot longer. Some women here struggle to breastfeed, and if u can, you should just continue it. Dont worry, they do feed lesser as they grow.. When my DS hit about 12months, he cut down to about 3-4feeds in 24 hrs. The night feeds are the hardest to cut out, but u will get there. I know ur losing sleep, but u r doing a great job! :)
 
 

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