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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 18 April 2011 - 10:06
I had a friend of a friend begging to visit, I let her come I did say for one week only, she booked for 15 days, came with 200 quid, flaunted herself about the place, everything hanging out!!!!!!!!! ofcourse to try to grab my hubbys attention. She was a complete nightmare, we spend afew bob on entertaining her, taking her out. This was over 2 years ago, I still have the scars. Ive learnt a very hard lesson from her.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 18 April 2011 - 10:04
Thank you egg - I will be upfront if it happens again. DH had to work away for 3 nights so I was left in the lurch which made it harder. And yes I was asked for toiletries!!!!!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 18 April 2011 - 10:00
They said they wanted a cheap holiday! But I didn't really expect to be food shopping every day! Previous guests and family have either bought a little gift or offered to pay for a meal out. It didn't happen this time. Suppose all I can say is if they want to come back we will be booked up!
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 18 April 2011 - 09:58
Happens all the time, its the mentality that you live in Dubai and can afford to, we have it all the time we have been here now 2.5 years the 1st year we had lots of visitors we ran them around showed them the sights (i am sick of seeing the burj khalifa lol) took them out etc etc, it cost us a fortune, particualrly from family members as they dont even bring toiletries, we got emails saying can you just get some and we will sort it out when we get there, big mistake, on our part i feel for not saying something about it, so the year after we had visitors and we told them we would not be doing anything as WE are not on holiday and we have to live here, we wont be eating out every night as that is not what WE normally do when no one is here, WE would not take time off from work needless to say the visits have dwindled and so far this year we have only had 1 visitor and dont have anymore pencilled in so far yet this year. I think, i have learned this, that you have to be open upfornt and just say (i did this) i may live in dubai but i am by no means loaded and cannot afford to take time from work, run you around and take you out for dinner everynight, tell them you have a shopping kitty (english for funds?) and they should put some money in the jar for everday essentials etc. Good luck, its really hard but once bitten never again is what i say, make sure you set your stall out before the next visitors. I dont mind the odd treat out for my guests but i think its wrong for them to expect everything after all would they go on holiday to somewhere else and expect someone else to pick up their bill???
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 18 April 2011 - 09:54
Were they invited guests!!!! I never expect a token gifts from any of my guests. Alot of guests do tend to expect us to pay for everything, now thats another story / argument we could get into.
 
 

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