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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 14 July 2015 - 05:20
Oopsidaisy, I get it, you don't like me, and it's fine, because this is your problem not mine. Keeping or deleting the post is totally up to me, posters agreed or disagreed is totally up to them to, I was asking about something and got responses, I agree with these responses or not, again this up to me too. If you really don't like any of my posts; simply ignore them, I didn't ask for your opinion! Again thanks for all ladies disagreed with me or even slightly agreed, except you oopsidaisy. That's a very unkind and unnecessary personal attack. Very rude. This is an open forum where people will disagree and write what they observe. If you can't respond to that in a mature manner maybe it's better not to respond at all.
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 22:04
Oopsidaisy, I get it, you don't like me, and it's fine, because this is your problem not mine. Keeping or deleting the post is totally up to me, posters agreed or disagreed is totally up to them to, I was asking about something and got responses, I agree with these responses or not, again this up to me too. If you really don't like any of my posts; simply ignore them, I didn't ask for your opinion! Again thanks for all ladies disagreed with me or even slightly agreed, except you oopsidaisy.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 19:57
Interesting how some posters find it necessary to delete their original post if people who take time to respond don't agree with them. I read the original post, didn't bother to reply, but since you have deleted it Gorobattie, I agree with all posters, you are totally overreacting.
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 14:28
Thank you all for your replies. You might thought I'm over reacting, but what happened over the years might be the reasons why I thought so. His ex is just being difficult specially this is the last year she gets the child support, so she is trying hard to send every email harassing him or me, demanding so many things that isn't in the agreement of the child support, plus when we were living in the same city, she used to call at night after she drank and make prank calls to me or my DH, despite she is already married, even there were one time she followed me while we were at a public place, until one time she just stated it clear to DH she doesn't want us in her city. Now it's 6 years after all this craziness, and her husband picking up the acts.... Thank you all for your inputs, and I was sensitive back then and did cry, but now I went throw linked in and got their agreement that states it's not a social site, it's a proffissional site to network and exchange experiences and finding jobs, as his last email stated that he created his account to check out a customer, I got response they are reviewing and investigating his account. Thanks ladies
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 12:52
Worth saying though--there are plenty of guys (and to be fair, I am sure women) on there that do not just simply network. Not stalkers, but looking for a little something-something under the guise of networking or business. It starts out the same way every time--an "inmail" with no real common ground such as"I buy widgets and I see you sell them, have you a good price on 1000 XYZ widgets?" no no..it's usually something to do with they 'used to live in Dubai, do I like it, do I ever get out to such and such place, we should have a coffee.....' :nerd:
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 11:37
I agree with the previous posters, please don't take this the wrong way but I think you are being slightly oversensitive. I have had an ex partner's new partner view my profile on Linkedin but didn't think much of it. It is a publicly available website so I wouldn't put anything on there that I didn't want the 7 billion other people on the planet to know about me. Please don't let it bother you, relax - its a holiday weekend!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 11:20
Have to agree with the others, you are overreacting. He viewed your profile on LinkedIn, he did not even message you. Making your DH contact him to complain about him viewing your profile is going overboard. Now they must be thinking you are obsessed with them :)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 11:10
LOL...i love his response, go tell LinkedIn to stop suggesting your profile to me. It's LinkedIn, it picks up your interests, location, industry, circles of friends, and other social media accounts you may have synced to present you new connections everyday. I had to remove all my accounts even Yahoo as at some point i had all LinkedIn contacts on Watsapp!! Am sure he's not stalking you probably curious, on LinkedIn people don't stalk, we call it networking. Any profile view is a potential employer or employee..Lol don't mind me please.
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 06:04
As someone who has been stalked, I would definitely agree with the other ladies here. The internet is a weird, weird thing and I have had suggestions in the "people you may know" section pop up on linkedin that I do know personally but do not have a professional nor an email history with. Now THAT creeps me out. Alternatively, maybe he did look you up. I've been looked up by exes on LinkedIn. This guy is not your ex, so I wouldn't worry he has anything sinister on his mind even if he did. Possibly just nosy and/or bored.
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 05:37
I agree with Marroosh. There are sites which go through your email contact list and compare it to the email contact list of everyone else on your list. When they see the same people each list they would automatically notify the both parties of everyone on the other party's list to see if there are any connections. I don't think anyone has been stalking you.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 July 2015 - 05:18
Yes you are overreacting. He saw your profile once. What would make you so sure he has been making all the effort to dig out your profile? Everyone gets notifications of possible connections, and you can very well be connected one way or the other based upon who is in your list. I get people in my possible contact list that have zero to do with my field. I think you are seriously overthinking it and asking your DH to tell his ex wife to tell her DH that he stalked you because of a 1 time profile view looks really silly. Sorry. By the way you know what stalking is? When someone consistently tries to contact a person who obviously doesn't want to be contacted, stands outside their home and all sort of crazy stuff to the extent that the stalked person can't even leave the house. That often leads to restraining orders. THAT is stalking.
 
 

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