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How much does a baby cost?

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Latest post on 16 August 2011 - 17:50

Hello ladies,

I'm trying to get an idea of the costs involved in having a baby in Dubai. Obviously everyone does it differently, but if you can give me an idea of how much it costs a month for nappies, clothes, formula, vaccines/doctors visits and other baby essentials say for the first 6 months.

TIA

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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 16 August 2011 - 21:27
Another way to save.. If you from UK and planning a visit there before baby or you have someone coming over here, get all your baby stuff from there. Soo much cheaper, especially in the sales. Gosh yes! Whenever I'm back, I hoover up stocks like there's no tomorrow. Here in Dubai, the most decent wet wipes I've found are the Chubs ones (and amongst the cheapest at 15aed a pack - not counting the cheapie-cheapie ones that are rubbish)... in the UK, ooo, 4 packs for 18aed!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 16 August 2011 - 21:24
Another way to save.. If you from UK and planning a visit there before baby or you have someone coming over here, get all your baby stuff from there. Soo much cheaper, especially in the sales. Nappies, wipes, baby toiletries are always on buy one get one free offer. Sorry don't know about costings in other countries. Another way to save is to watch out for Babyshop/ Mothercare sales here in Dubai and stock up on what you need then. For the first 6 months babies will need 8-10 nappies per day! Another tip: google various baby shopping lists and then ask as many friends as possible what they really used and what they didn't. Good luck!
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Latest post on 16 August 2011 - 21:20
Hahaha, thanks! When I posted this I did wonder 'how long is a piece of string?' but I just wanted to get a general idea. I am with you in that the day to day can be as much or as little as you make it, but OH is the one who needs convincing, he seems to think a baby will drag us into financial ruin! Well, my dad once said (before DH and I were even married) that there's no ideal time to have a baby, you're never prepared and you never have enough money, but that won't stop you and you'll cope just fine. The only really non-negotiable bit is the actual birth really. Budget up to 35k for that (private c-section), but as for the rest, you can easily just play it by ear. I bought my children's cot on Dubizzle for 200aed and although first time around I did go for the colour-coordinated nursery set (including deluxe change mat... /sigh), by the time I had my second, I'd realised that a towel on the bed does the trick just as well. Think of it this way: a/ people who actually have no money and few worldly goods still manage to have children and b/ as long as bubs is safe, loved and fed, you can pick up the accessories along the way... oh, and c/ you'll find friends and family will be incredibly generous in rather surprising ways - I've just found out one of my best friends is expecting her first and since I'm not planning on another, I'm giving her, well, everything short of a cot and a buggy!)
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Latest post on 16 August 2011 - 21:13
lol I read "how much does a baby cost?" and was considering offering to sell you my guy :) we bought a cot, change table and all other nursery furniture (really nice solid wood) second hand, and borrowed a bassinet and play mat off a friend, saved us loads. Highchair, get the cheap IKEA antilop, super easy to clean. Clothes cost as much or as little as you want to spend, H&M have cute cheap things and if you buy in advance during the sales you pay peanuts. Spend good money on a carseat, pram and monitor, you get what you pay for with these.
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Latest post on 16 August 2011 - 21:05
If it helps, I am due to give birth in 4 weeks and I've been keeping a spreadsheet of every single cost (including nappies, bottles to blood tests etc). My company has paid for my insurance so pregnancy check ups have been free. The birth also will be taken care of by the hospital however some costs are not free (depending on your health insurance). For example, epidurals and elective c-sections are not covered by most policies however if you have a good doctor, they might be able to give an excuse why its needed to waver this cost. As for setting up the nursery etc, I have paid AED 3,200 to date and have everything I need. This has included AED 1,300 worth of tests that were not covered by my insurer (down syndrome test at 12 wks for example). The remaining AED 1,900 has been spent on a stroller, car seat, bottles, nappies, nappy cream, baby bath, lotions and potions! I purchased a lot of stuff second hand from Dubizzle. As so many people are constantly moving away from Dubai you will be amazed what prices you can purchase various items for. I have done a rough calculation and saved around AED 3,000 alone from purchasing on Dubizzle and not buying new. That's a big saving. Also, if you have friends that have chlidren and no longer babies, they may be generous enough to give you items to borrow. My friends have been gorgeous and without asking, have given us a moses basket, base for car seat, toys, double breast pump and clothing. I haven't factored in the saving from these items. I agree with Hello Kitty who wrote you can spend as much or as little. A good friend has spent AED 20,000 just setting up their nursery. The choice is yours what you want to spend. I hope this gives you another look into how to save and what costs can be for a baby.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 16 August 2011 - 19:46
If you can get a health card in al wasl hospital, you can get free vaccinations for your children in the government clinic near your place.
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Latest post on 16 August 2011 - 19:33
Hahaha, thanks! When I posted this I did wonder 'how long is a piece of string?' but I just wanted to get a general idea. I am with you in that the day to day can be as much or as little as you make it, but OH is the one who needs convincing, he seems to think a baby will drag us into financial ruin!
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Latest post on 16 August 2011 - 18:29
hehe - put it this way, once you have one, what choice do you have? If you want cheap, breastfeed, use cloth nappies or supermarket-brand nappies, use a damp flannel instead of wet-wipes and when the time comes make all your own baby food. Use only second-hand clothes and furniture. Cut out all the fancy things that quite frankly babies really don't need (matching nursery set?!) and rely on others to give bubs all the toys it'll need (which is actually true). It's very much a case of how long's a piece of string. Some people (me) go for a rather streamlined approach, others go for the whole kit and kaboodle. Second-hand clothes, for example, you can pick up a huge bag full for less than 50aed or you could go to Baby Cacharel and spend 600aed on a designer babygrow (maybe slight exaggeration, but not far off!)... baby monitors, you could go for, er, your own ears (free) or a super video-screen one for about 400aed. Anyhow, coming back to the subject, I can't honestly place a price on the day-to-day costs because it all just got mixed in with our normal shopping. There are a lot of upfront costs to set up the nursery and get the kit (and give birth here!) but the only running costs for the first 6 months are nappies and wet-wipes (which both depend on how often you need to change bubs)... you'll find you'll be given a lot of clothes, so manage people so that you get a range of sizes and not just 70 newborn items. As for medical costs, again, if your baby needs medical attention, then you have to give it... it's not really something you can budget. Some clinics do Well-Baby drop-ins and I think vaccinations are about 600aed a pop (haven't done any in Dubai - I do them in the UK). I've only once had to take my now 2-year-old son to the Dr, but DD makes regular trips to A&E! <em>edited by Hello.Again.Kitty on 16/08/2011</em>
 
 

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