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How to get rid of the dummy???

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 October 2011 - 12:04

DD is 14 mths and i want to get rid of the dummy. She has only ever used it for bedtime and nap time any suggestions on how i can get rid of it????

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 October 2011 - 18:25
Thank you ladies, i have decided Im not going to not give to her starting from the weekend that way DH can help me out if the crying gets too much. Wish me luck
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 October 2011 - 15:32
One way is to cut the tip off and give back to her. Next week cut a bit more off. After three weeks or so it will be too hard for her to suck as it will keep falling out of her mouth and she will just give up. No stress or arguments with her.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 24 October 2011 - 13:26
An idea... with Christmas just around the corner (7 Sundays left) if you are into the 'Santa Claus' thing, perhaps suggest your little wraps it up as a gift for Santa, in in it's place received a lovely gift on christmas day? That way SHE has given it away herself as apposed to YOU taking it away from her. If you want to take this approach, it'll have to be next Christmas at the very earliest. 14 months is too young.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 24 October 2011 - 13:00
I am in [b'>exactly[/b'> the same situation with my 14 month old, he only has it for sleeping but it is a very strong sleep cue for him. I'm not ok with the leaving to cry-cold turkey method and he's too young to "get" the santa claus idea, would love to hear any alternatives otherwise I'll go back to the "pantley pull out" technique (no-cry method) or wait until he's a little older. Meanwhile putting several dummies in the cot at night has helped stop him calling out for me if he wakes and can't find it.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 October 2011 - 12:35
When I did it with DD1 after much thought and discussion with my sister who has 3 kids we came to the conclusion it was when u the parent are ready to get rid of it and be ready for the aftermath, being mentally prepared. When I did it I chose a day and decided right, it was her last day going to childminders for the wk and when we got home I just told her we forgot it and will get it next wk. Lots of distraction amongst the tears helped but my sister said to me 3 days max and then she will forget it. I remember putting her to bed and feeling like a right moo listening to her cry but knew ultimately it was for the right reason. 2 nights of tears for about an hour each time and it was sorted. U could bring it to the beach and bury it in the sand. A few months later she found her thumb Aghh and stopped that when she was 5 getting her to stop that was another story lol
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 October 2011 - 12:34
An idea... with Christmas just around the corner (7 Sundays left) if you are into the 'Santa Claus' thing, perhaps suggest your little wraps it up as a gift for Santa, in in it's place received a lovely gift on christmas day? That way SHE has given it away herself as apposed to YOU taking it away from her.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 October 2011 - 12:32
just don't give it to her anymore, the longer you wait the harder it will to get rid of it, she will find something else to sooth, like her thumb or blanket. It might be hard in the first day or two once she notices its gone, but then she will forget about it.
 
 

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