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@ServantQuarters I dont know how he managed to do that but he did it somehow , he has some friends among locals , may be they helped him but he got the birth certificate and got the birth registered in his own country as well. We were married back in his country only , i have the marriage certificate though. I wish he abandoned me actually, things would have been way easier, because the process could work the way you explained.However, he will probably come back again on visit visa to either take me to court or do something else about my daughter,but he will for sure come back. I can still go to court and claim that he abandoned me and my daughter but then again what if he shows up and says he did not abandon us rather it was me not ''obeying'' him and lying to court about him, that might give negative image about me to the judge, what do u think ? @Gorobattie I cannot lie, that's one thing i cannot do , i will stick to being truthful till i solve this. Besides come on ,this is UAE , An islamic country, i would have a lot to explain to authorities if the child was born here without father... @ Estelle Thank you dear. Actually he's not supporting us at all, it's my mother doing everything for me and my daughter so far, he refuses to support me and his daughter and says i'm not entitled to ask for any support as long as i disobey him and live somewhere that he doesn't approve ... I appreciate your good wishes. By the way does anyone know any good lawyers who have experience in such cases? I don't want to waste my money once i save enough for someone who's not capable of making me win the case. Thanks a lot again.

@Green-ish thank you dear.. @ Sandy Dogg: He has recently offered me co-operation for the ''future'' of our daughter and told me that he'd come and take care of passport and everything if i agree to go with him and live in his country, And i am totally against that for some reasons, so i told him that it's not possible, then he started threatening me saying that he'd come and go to shariah court to petition against me for disobeying him and would ask the court either to force me and my daughter to go with him or to give the custody to him saying i'm keeping my daughter in UAE illegally so i told him that i would go to court to ask divorce from him, then he said he would never ever divorce me and shariah court would never divorce us since there's no reason at all... I don't know what to do : ( @Advice Seeker: Thanks a lot for all the information , you have given me some hope ,I don't think i can get any letter from husband allowing my mother to sponsor my daughter, he's totally against that idea. I wish my father was here but my parents are divorced and he lives in NYC now. I tried to call DNRD and ask about the new family sponsorship law, however they hold me on line and didn't give me any answer, i should better go to DNRD and speak with them face to face. Good news is that my daughter has at least citizenship of my husbands country but i cannot get passport for her from that consulate either since consent of both parents needed : ( And i refuse to give any consent to my husband cause i know if he gets the passport for my daughter, i am afraid he'd simply take my daughter away from me to his country. Your are right about fines, i think the fine is 100 AED a day, i hope i can get the fines lowered through the court cause seems like my daughter will stay here illegal for some more time , at least till i save enough money to hire a lawyer to take care of everything and solve this problem :( @americanfamily3 , Thanks a whole lot for your sincere support but i went to US consulate my dear , children gain US citizenship without any condition if they are born in US or both of parents are american, in my case i am the only American citizen and my daughter was born in UAE and that adds up extra conditions to get passport for my daughter such as consent of my husband. Actually my mom and i went to hospital with 6 cops when we told them that hospital refusing to give us birth records, we went and police spoke with head of hospital and then told us that they cannot do anything since father doesn't have any consent for release of my daughter's documents. Btw i was born and raised in NY , i gained citizenship of my husband's country through marriage, it's one of those mid east countries... I entered UAE on visit visa, then managed to do visa runs till the birth of my daughter, then my husband left and my mother sponsored me , now i am a resident. My husband was with me when i was giving birth,he was still on his visit visa. I gave birth at a private hospital in Dubai and they did not ask for residency that time. Btw about the conditions giving my baby US citizenship , i don't meet this one : The U.S. citizen parent or grandparent must have been physically present in the U.S. for five years before the child's birth, at least two of which were after age fourteen. I was in USA till i was around 10 then my parents got divorced and my mother took me to UAE , i visited USA for around a year only after that. So yeah that's another bad news @HereWeGo that's what i have been wondering as well my dear, but my husband is determined not to divorce me since he has made it clear to me many times. Anyways as i said if that's my last option, i will do everything to get divorced from him and get full custody of my child. Because as i know according to shariah ( btw my husband and i are both muslims) if the couple get divorced, the custody of children go to mother till they reach some certain age. However then the question is , would the judge help me divorcing my husband while he's not agreed to do so..

Wow! I wasn't expecting these many replies, i love all of you!Thanks for all answers and suggestions really, it has brought tears to my eyes. Now some updates based on your questions, I have my marriage certificate with me , that's the only document i could save from my daughter's father, i also went to the hospital to get copy of pink slip of birth record,thinking that i might be able to issue a new birth certificate but i was shocked to hear that my husband wrote a letter and gave them not to give anything from the files of my daughter to anyone including me,my mother or anyone related with me. Anyways so they said they are not authorized to give out anything as per ''order'' from my husband...I also went to al baraha hospital to see if i could get the copy of birth cert. however they asked for the passport of my husband and of course i couldn't provide that so i left there empty handed as well. @sandy dogg, my dear, my daughter has not had any visa since her birth, actually her father came here for my birth on visit visa.And had to go back after the expiration. @cyclone T. Thanks a lot for reply,it's relieving to hear that i can work with NOC from my mother : ) Btw i think my husband also got the birth registered back in his country to give his own citizenship to my baby, but it's also registered here in Dubai as he managed to get birth certificate on his own. @AmyAus 82 I appreciate for ur support , and thank you for your suggestion , i will follow your advice. I really wouldn't want my husband to find out about my plans, cause he also wants to take my daughter back to his country. Sadly , i have no qualifications at all to sponsor my daughter , that's y i was curious if my mom could sponsor her as well. @jeniawwad Just like you said , they require every each paper : ( been there and asked them about my situation, they said they could not assist since i don't possess any documents for my baby at all, besides they told me my husband called them and after giving my name and passport number, he told them that he doesn't give consent for my daughter to get US citizenship just in case if i come to apply,so that was another disappointment for me.And I also hold citizenship of the country that my husband is from and i did also went there ,then again they asked no objection letter from the father... I think he thought all the steps that i might take and was always couple of steps ahead of me :( In short i have no idea how i can get passport for my daughter..And you cannot imagine how depressing it's. @adviceseeker , i wish i was rich enough to open up a company :( But i am not. I cannot even afford a lawyer, they asked around 10k to 15k dirhams...Btw Did that person who tried to have her mother sponsor her son have the sole custody for her son? @Ms. K thanks for parking advice : ) And again thank you all for your replies, you cannot imagine how important for me to see people helping me out especially at this very hard time of my lifetime ...