There's also some other things you could do without DH, the Carol Singing night at Irish Village is really fab and the Christmas Market at the Madinat is lovely, also the Pantos at Madinat Theatre & Ductac. All things you can do with the children.
<hoping I didn't actually delete it by mistake and poor dear Mod is getting blame>
Anyway, Cherpie, maybe it would be nice for you to go to an EW coffee morn, meet some new friends and [i'>then [/i'>all go for an outing to Santa/Wafi together - it would give you a nice Xmas feeling and you could see the wafi markets etc for some shopping.
HI All,
Sometimes... just sometimes.... things can be deleted in error either by admin or users... think that's what happened in this case.
Just FYI
EW Admin
Then dare I suggest, Admin need to be more careful.... [i'>Think[/i'> deleted by mistake ??? why do you not have a record of all deleted posts ?
<em>edited by Doubting Thomas on 14/10/2014</em>
Cherpie you sound so unhappy :( A huge part of any marriage, but I think especially mixed marriages (in my own experience), is willingness to compromise, open minded discussion and mutual respect for each other's beliefs, or their right to their beliefs at least. It sounds as though it's a pretty one way street for you at the moment...is there a reason you feel you can't / shouldn't etc. put your foot down, or is this a case of picking your battles?
Life is short, I hope you find a way to be happy, whatever that means for you and your family.
You'd be surprised what he doesn't avoid, seems he likes to pick and choose.
That's really awesome to celebrate both, that's what I always envisioned happening in my life too. Im just not even a human at all in his opinion.
<em>edited by Cherpie on 14/10/2014</em>
I'm a muslim and I always look forward to Christmas. I even have a tree in my house.
If he's such a strict brother, does he also avoid and boycot all malls in this country as they are filled to the brim with Christmas decorations? Would really like the answer to that.
edited by Notnewintown on 14/10/2014
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I'm a muslim and I always look forward to Christmas. I even have a tree in my house.
If he's such a strict brother, does he also avoid and boycot all malls in this country as they are filled to the brim with Christmas decorations? Would really like the answer to that.
<em>edited by Notnewintown on 14/10/2014</em>
HI All,
Sometimes... just sometimes.... things can be deleted in error either by admin or users... think that's what happened in this case.
Just FYI
EW Admin
Why has my post suggesting that Cherpie could go to Santa at Wafi been deleted???
For goodness sake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yes !!!! why ? why ? why ? doesnt make sense ? i like wafi during christmas, i am getting all excited planning for christmas already
edited by stylex1 on 14/10/2014
<em>edited by stylex1 on 14/10/2014</em>
such a sad post ..i truly feel for you. you are always more than welcome to join us. my husband converted to islam to marry me but we still celebrate Christmas , thanksgiving etc. we have a massive christmas in our house and have a proper Christmas meal with gifts under the tree .it all boils to respect for each other's culture. as a muslim we are supposed to be tolerant and flexible. During ramadhan he tolerates my fasting and celebrate eid with me and in return , I join him in his celebrations.
edited by stylex1 on 14/10/2014
edited by stylex1 on 14/10/2014
This is how we do things too. Even before marriage & growing up in UK we celebrated the birth of Jesus, which is also a Muslim belief (along with the nativity story) & He is a prophet in Islam.... so I don't get why your box had to go?? :(
Wafi plan sounds good, or maybe carol singing at Cherpie's? (+/- mulled date juice)... he'll wish he'd kept the Christmas music CDs lol
<em>edited by Britgirldubai on 14/10/2014</em>
Sorry to hear this - there are always memories tucked away in those boxes....
Maybe you should sit on Santa's knee and make some secret Christmas wishes...
such a sad post ..i truly feel for you. you are always more than welcome to join us. my husband converted to islam to marry me but we still celebrate Christmas , thanksgiving etc. we have a massive christmas in our house and have a proper Christmas meal with gifts under the tree .it all boils to respect for each other's culture. as a muslim we are supposed to be tolerant and flexible. During ramadhan he tolerates my fasting and celebrate eid with me and in return , I join him in his celebrations.
edited by stylex1 on 14/10/2014
<em>edited by stylex1 on 14/10/2014</em>
Oh Cherpie, what a sad post.
I wish there was something one could say to make you feel better. I truly hope you can find your way to a happier life.
Sending a virtual hug x