sorry to hear that. atleast u know you gave it a try. i had my son after ivf/icsi, and i got pregnant again naturally (but i lost it at the beginning of the 4th month). so i have high hopes i can do it again. u never know what your body decideds to do.
So, so, so sorry!!! My thoughts are with you - I know exactly what you are going through as my sister has been through quite a few cycles over the past few years, all equally unsuccessful and heartbreaking. But don't give up! Think that you are healthy and there are many days ahead of you. The best would be to relax, take a nice holiday and try again when you are ready. With these things it is always the same story: the more relaxed you are, the better results. Have you no chances at all of conceiving naturally? This is the most fun method ;)
Thank you for your lovely messages ladies. In the end we went for the transfer on Thursday so now I have the dreaded two week wait. I am feeling full up to my ribs like last time so I really hope this is a good sign.... Will let you know in ten days!
sarahk, I agree with happymommy that there never is the right time when you are a career woman so maybe this is the little push you need to do it - I needed my push too and delivered a beautiful baby 2 months ago; could not be happier!
Best of luck - you are doing the right thing!
There never seems a "perfect time" for having a baby. I think you're making the right decision. Hopefully you'll have a healthy baby, because you sound like a great mom. And remember you'll still have 9 months to prepare. I wish you the best of luck!
Wishing you the best of luck. I remember interviewing some of the doctors when the law changed and they were as frustrated as their patients but of course, had their hands tied.
Fingers crossed and lots of baby dust to you.x
In the end, we have decided to go for the transfer. It is not the best time but I cannot face having the embryos destroyed after going through so much last time. It will cost us 20k next time to go through the whole process again and I dont know when, if ever, we will have that kind of money. This time, it is only 5,000 dhs for the transfer. We can only try....
That really is a tough one... Sorry you have to face this. I will pray you will find peace in the right decision. What is your gut feeling to do right now?
This is a horrible situation to be put in - can't begin to imagine how you're feeling. I think its ridiculous that they are no longer allowed to freeze embryos ... Is there anyway you could transfer the embryos to another centre in another country? The cost of this might be huge though :s
I have just received a call from the hospital where I had my IVF treatment in Abu Dhabi. They have informed me that my frozen embryos will be destroyed in two weeks if I dont have them transferred by the 30th June. This is a huge decision to make. I am working full time, just survived one of the most exhausting times of my professional career and DH has just abour forgiven me for ignoring him for the last 9 months.
Is there any way around this? Surely the Health authority can give options. The receptionist told me it had been all over the papers, surely you knew??? very sympathetic. :(