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Looking at childcare options - working mum moving to Dubai in the summer

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 02:28

Hi
I work full time and am moving to Dubai with my spouse and two young children, aged 5 and 7, in July. Whilst my hubby will be able to spend the first 6 weeks or so solely on getting everyone settled in before school starts (as I have to start work straight away), Im anxious to think in advance about childcare options before school starts in September and my hubby also starts work.
A lot of people have suggested that we to get a live-in maid, but I'd like to consider the best options for the kids before cleaning and domestic help. Does anyone have any advice? Essentially I am able to take the kids to school everyday, the issue I have is the pick up from school at 2.30pm(although I'm hoping we can live in a district serviced by the school bus routes ....) and the care they receive from that time until 6/630pm when I get home - so taking them to the pool, help with homework, making tea etc.
I'd prefer to get the childcare right and if need be get a maid x hours a week to help with housework. Any advice?! and if so an idea of the 'going rates' would be useful - so far in our budget I've earmarked 2500AED per month and it would be good to know how realistic this is (as unfortunately budget is a consideration ...)
At the moment we're considering Victory Heights, The Villa or the Ranches as possible places to live (if that makes any difference!). Whilst I know the move will be stressful, its this one piece that really is causing me the most anxiety at the moment!
Many thanks,
Angeypangey

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 21:01
Thanks all so much. I've looked on the classifieds and there looks a good volume and mix of maids and nannies, I feel a bit calmer that it will all come good in the end. So for now I'm parking this 'problem' til later when I can actually do something about it! First job - schools. Thanks again, its really reassuring that there parents who both work full time and happily make it work for the family. I dont think it will take me long to get my head around havign extra help at home ... I'll probably look back and wonder how I ever managed with my sanity intact! Ange
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 17:34
OP, yes you can manage without help, but ultimately you will end up a little more frazzled, harrassed and just when you think you can sit down and have a glass of your favourite juice, you'll remember that you still have the lunches to pack, uniforms to iron and bags to sort. From experience. :-P Getting help is the way forward!
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 16:35
My DD goes to DESS. There is currently no school transport to our area. We live near Arabian Ranches.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 13:26
Hi, i work full time as does DH and our solution has been to hire a live in helper and a live out driver. DS goes to kings, and little DS to nursery but will thankfully start at kings as well in sep. honestly as much as its difficult to adjust to live in help, in my opinion it is the only way to do it. She helps get the house and all else sorted, so when i come home from work, i can focus fully on the kids. We have worked out a rota for school lunches and snacks which she prepares in the morning, so that all runs smoothly. She and driver will do both pick and drop off. Without live in help, i think it woild be much tougher, and you have the added challenge of finding a babysitter for when you want to get out in the evenings. It does take some adjusting, but if you find the right one, it can work well Advice in finding one? Go with your gut feel, and refs are good to get. Also try to find one that genuinely loves children - all will say they do, but if you were to come home early unannunced one day you might well find your kids plonked in front of the TV! Ours loves playing with them and chooses to do that over everything else! You also need to make sure that the person you hire understands you, so you can communicate on the phone, and that she will understand your guidelines when it comes to handling the children. Good luck! I do think that if you find the right people, it is relatively easy to be a working mum here! Ps we are very happy with kings - ds is fs1. If the new school is anything like the original, which they are really trying to make sure is the case, it will be great. We live in the ranches and love it, loads of great parks!, <em>edited by JulesLC on 02/04/2013</em>
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EW GURU
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 12:56
As many of the others have said your best option will be either a live out or live in homehelp. Both DH and I are full time working parents. Our little devil attends Star International in Umm Sequim. Star is one of the few schools which I know about that offers after school club until 4.00pm. Our homehelp collects DD from School by taxi and takes her home. The only comment I would have especially where you are thinking of residing will be transport if you go down the "live out" route, especially if you need hands on help getting the kids ready for school. If your late home from work this will have a knock on effect to the time your homehelp leaves etc etc etc. If you search on the classified section her there are lots of people looking for new jobs. Some adverts are put on by the employers themselves. I've found my present one homehelp who has been with me for four years thus far on the classified section. If I said the interview process wasn't stressful I'd be lying but you will get there. Good luck x
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EW GURU
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 12:18
You're not going to find a qualified nanny or child-minder in Dubai. The handful of families with proper nannies will have sourced them directly from Europe at significance expense (European wage levels). The huge supply of domestic help in the UAE is going to be from either India, Sri Lanka or the Philippines where there really isn't a proper system of certifications or training for nannies and where most people just have the maids look after the children. Your best bet is to advertise for a maid who has experience working with families with children and thoroughly check their references from their previous madams. I'd also look for older maids as they tend to be more reliable. edited by Tallybalt on 02/04/2013 <em>edited by Tallybalt on 02/04/2013</em>
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 12:02
Thanks for your replies! I'm hoping that they will either be attending DESS (I can dream!), or either of the new ones at Victory Heights or Kings in nad al sheba 3 (which I've been told will both run a bus service). So it looks like my options are a live in maid, but to try and find one with the right experience (I'm guessing this is what everyone looks for and they may be in short supply!). Could you recommend any agencies? or at least flag ones to avoid ...?! Thanks again Ange
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 09:09
You could also consider a live out maid if you live somewhere with public transport, this works very well for us. You will still need to sponsor her and we keep the passport but she doesn't work weekends and get to the house every morning at 7. Do you know what school they will be attending yet?
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 02 April 2013 - 08:51
I would think a live in maid is your best option. Otherwise your only real option would be to get a maid daily from an agency at around AED30 an hour with no guarantee that they would send the same one every time or indeed even turn up on time. You also have to consider who would stay home with them if they are sick. Different schools service different areas with school buses - I am always surprised that there is no bus service from my DD's school to Arabian Ranches or Victory Heights.the bus service is also not cheap - varies between schools but at a rough estimate AED 800 a month per child.
 
 

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