In the immortal words of Michael Winner, calm down, dear.
Sorry to hear this has happened, but you need to bring the stress levels down a notch or three or you'll be in no fit state by Friday.
OK, was this your usual hairdresser who let you down? Whether it was or not, call your usual hairdressing salon and explain what has happened, beg and plead for their help. If they won't help, call round some salons and explain. I know of a Salon which is open on Friday mornings, on Al Wasl Road, can't remember the name but they may be able to help. Will get back to you.
Have you got your husband's papers showing EID being applied for? Otherwise, get your husband to take his residency visa, your tenancy contract and insist what they are doing is wrong.
Don't worry about seating plan, just have the people you want near you and let the rest of them get on with it.
Start when you're ready. The Bride is allowed to be fashionably late..
Can't help you with dress code as I wouldn't know smart chic if it slapped me in the face.
And breathe.. Enjoy it as much as you can and have a fab honeymoon.
Does it really matter what your guests wear? They could show up in paper bags, but as long as you enjoy them ...
Perhaps you've lost sight on what a wedding is meant to be about and that is why it seems the gods are against you?
It is our wedding blessing on Fri - we have spent 18 months preparing, spent the equivalent of a house deposit and have family flying in from all over the world. I am just so angry as it is so stressful and people are just pathetic. For example:
* Hair dresser stood me up for the trial and now after rescheduling stood me up again, 3 days before the wedding. How the F am I going to find someone to do my hair now?
* Venue demands husband's Emirates ID to waive tourism fee - since he hasn't got this yet we are being charged 3.5k even tho we have residency visas
* Guests are being ridiculous - cancelling last minute, asking to bring uninvited guests and now my table plan is totally screwed as half the names don't make sense
* Guests have not bothered to even read the invitations, getting the venue wrong (wrong hotel) and TIME! It says ceremony to start at 3:30 and people are like, yes we will get there 3:30 - NO they need to be seated at that time
* Guests not understanding dress code - we want smart chic, NOT clubbing outfits, The Oscars style ballgowns or shorts
* Guests finding all the above utterly hilarious when I correct them - err no, please can you understand it is extremely stressful
I don't understand how some people are grown adults and cannot work out how to get to a venue on time wearing the correct attire. I cannot wait to get on honeymoon (yes we lost our deposit as well to a company that went bust) as laying on this blessing is more hassle than its worth. We eloped originally and I really regret bothering having a wedding, mostly for the benefit of others, who don't give a sh!t how much effort we have put in.
sorry, but are you seriously telling people what to wear ?
Sorry to hear it is so stressful but if you have your residency visa you must have the slip of paper given to you by the Emirates ID Authority when you did your eye scan etc. They have to accept this until the ID card arrives.