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Dear Dubai....I am divorcing you.....

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 23 March 2011 - 10:09

Dear Dubai

I thought that I would write you a letter to explain my feelings toward you.

When I first thought about coming to Dubai I was excited. I was taken in by the weather, the palm trees the apparent wealth of schools here, the shopping facilities and the wonderful multi-cultural population.

I am disappointed Dubai.

You didn’t tell me that the summers were so hot that you basically had to hibernate all summer.

You didn’t tell me that even the best schools in Dubai were only on a par with good state primary schools in the UK and were at least a year behind private schools.

You didn’t tell me that there is such an air of arrogance from most people that step foot in this place – people don’t say ‘after you’ here. They just walk straight past you and let doors go in your face. I am glad the Titanic did not sink in Dubai.

You didn’t tell me that everyone on the road would try to kill me, nobody has any manners and they toot their horns at you constantly for just letting another driver out of a junction or IMMEDIATELY as the lights turn green.

You didn’t tell me that nobody seems to say thank you.

You didn’t tell me that my husband would have to jump through hoops at work to please his local investors, get treated like an office junior and is expected to wait for people at meetings arriving HOURS late.

You didn’t tell me that the fruit and vegetables here would all look and taste like they have been on the back of a lorry for six weeks and injected with hormones.

You didn’t tell me that all the neighbours think that they are on holiday and have parties after parties after parties, even on school nights.

You didn’t tell me that there was NOTHING to do here apart from the beach or to shop. I never expected to be so bored.

You didn’t tell me that I would be treated like a second rate person because I am not Arabic.

You didn’t tell me that people were treated like slaves here whilst the big shots have it all.

You didn’t tell me that I would get lied to all the time by delivery men, shop workers and repair men.

You didn’t tell me that your road systems SUCK.

You didn’t tell me that the administrative rubbish we have to deal with was like living in the 70’s.

You didn’t tell me that you were no better than anywhere else in the world and would let me down this way.

For that reason Dubai, I am divorcing you. I will be leaving you shortly and I hope that you learn from your mistakes and change.

I will not miss you and I no longer love you.

Goodbye.

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EW GURU
Latest post on 25 March 2011 - 09:00
I don't need anyone to feel sorry for me.. :) I am a happy well adjusted person. I have found good and bad in the UAE as a whole. Had I spent more time away, maybe I would have treasured more of it. Who knows. Maybe it was never going to be for me.. One will never know. I am glad you like it here. I hope you continue to enjoy it to the fullest when you are here.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 25 March 2011 - 08:20
I am not bitter. And if you had read ANYTHING I have said in the past especially on my leaving here, I have stated I have mixed feelings about it. I have stated that it hasn't been all bad. I absolutely have no problem with anyone liking it here or wanting to move here. I have never ONCE told anyone who has considered the move here to reconsider. We spent 5 months here in Dubai AFTER my dh was laid off. That is more than most people do. Many pack up and leave within the first 60 days. My dh looked for other jobs before deciding he didn't want to work for another company here. He looked at starting businesses here but decided he didn't want part ownership in something that he was fully funding. I had repeatidly told my husband if he wanted to stay here, I would stay another 2 years but I was adament I was out of here when my 2 year old was to start school. He is the one who chose that it was time to finally leave. Dubai is an interesting place. It has something to offer for everyone. And believe me there were many things I did enjoy here, but for me it is not a place to live but more of a place to visit. As for nurturing and educating me are you serious? If you really want me to go down that route on my post I will. Because I assure you the negatives on that still out weigh the positives for me. And for your information, I have encouraged many people to visit Dubai just to get the experience of it all. When I am asked about Dubai I tell EVERYONE it has its good and it's bad points. I have never bad mouthed it to anyone anywhere. I have simply stated it is not for ME. There is nothing wrong with that. I have met and mingled with the locals here on numerous occassions. And I assure you I have met some really great locals with hearts of gold. We have been helped out in the desert by locals, we have been invited in for tea out in the middle of now where by the locals just to hear their stories, we have been shown places and things in ways that only locals can show it. Those are the great things I have enjoyed. I have often felt that Dubai has lost it's heart and soul in it's bid to be the biggest and the best at things. I even said it the other day that Dubai ONCE had the most beautiful beaches that have now been destroyed by careless individuals who leave their garbage all over the place because they are too lazy to clean up after fun day at the beach . Or they are destroyed because of the silly need to make the Palm islands so they are full of dead coral and oil in the water from leaky ships. And the whole issue of racism, rudeness, backwards laws, and other important issues are tiring for anyone. I have been courteous of this country. I do not eat or drink in public when it's Ramadan like I have seen so many do, I do not dress in skank wear at any given time of the year, my cloths are modest, my mouth is in check,and yet I am still treated badly by so many in the shops here. And why is that?? Because they think they can. Thats why. These are things that ruin it for people. And for the record before I leave this thread, I believe firmly that if you leave Dubai and go to some of the other Emirates,you will have a much more enjoyable experience because they haven't sold their souls to the devil. They still hold the traditional lifestyles and the locals are far more hospitable outside of Dubai. edited by bornconfused on 25/03/2011 I have read, and I do understand BC, I just feel sorry thats all. I didnt want you to have to feel that you should be defending yourself, yet again, for your belief systems, and how you feel about dubai. I agree with everything you say mostly. And thank you very much, we do spend quite a bit of our time out of dxb itself and perhaps thats why we love living here so much....I think about our experiences in the UAE as a whole as opposed to just this city, which is such a small part of it for me. all the best.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 25 March 2011 - 07:16
I am not bitter. And if you had read ANYTHING I have said in the past especially on my leaving here, I have stated I have mixed feelings about it. I have stated that it hasn't been all bad. I absolutely have no problem with anyone liking it here or wanting to move here. I have never ONCE told anyone who has considered the move here to reconsider. We spent 5 months here in Dubai AFTER my dh was laid off. That is more than most people do. Many pack up and leave within the first 60 days. My dh looked for other jobs before deciding he didn't want to work for another company here. He looked at starting businesses here but decided he didn't want part ownership in something that he was fully funding. I had repeatidly told my husband if he wanted to stay here, I would stay another 2 years but I was adament I was out of here when my 2 year old was to start school. He is the one who chose that it was time to finally leave. Dubai is an interesting place. It has something to offer for everyone. And believe me there were many things I did enjoy here, but for me it is not a place to live but more of a place to visit. As for nurturing and educating me are you serious? If you really want me to go down that route on my post I will. Because I assure you the negatives on that still out weigh the positives for me. And for your information, I have encouraged many people to visit Dubai just to get the experience of it all. When I am asked about Dubai I tell EVERYONE it has its good and it's bad points. I have never bad mouthed it to anyone anywhere. I have simply stated it is not for ME. There is nothing wrong with that. I have met and mingled with the locals here on numerous occassions. And I assure you I have met some really great locals with hearts of gold. We have been helped out in the desert by locals, we have been invited in for tea out in the middle of now where by the locals just to hear their stories, we have been shown places and things in ways that only locals can show it. Those are the great things I have enjoyed. I have often felt that Dubai has lost it's heart and soul in it's bid to be the biggest and the best at things. I even said it the other day that Dubai ONCE had the most beautiful beaches that have now been destroyed by careless individuals who leave their garbage all over the place because they are too lazy to clean up after fun day at the beach . Or they are destroyed because of the silly need to make the Palm islands so they are full of dead coral and oil in the water from leaky ships. And the whole issue of racism, rudeness, backwards laws, and other important issues are tiring for anyone. I have been courteous of this country. I do not eat or drink in public when it's Ramadan like I have seen so many do, I do not dress in skank wear at any given time of the year, my cloths are modest, my mouth is in check,and yet I am still treated badly by so many in the shops here. And why is that?? Because they think they can. Thats why. These are things that ruin it for people. And for the record before I leave this thread, I believe firmly that if you leave Dubai and go to some of the other Emirates,you will have a much more enjoyable experience because they haven't sold their souls to the devil. They still hold the traditional lifestyles and the locals are far more hospitable outside of Dubai. <em>edited by bornconfused on 25/03/2011</em>
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 23:13
11 pages? Gee whiz! I actually take offense to your comment, Snitch. I'm pro Dubai and don't consider myself lacking in anything. I guess I have learnt to appreciate life for what it is, not complain about what it isn't or could/should be. If that means I'm lacking in something then I wonder what a 'full' person is like... Totally agree with you Amy, what a condescending remark from Snitch who I presume lives here. Really, ceebs to read through the whole thread coz it will just get me cross. Stop whinging and get out if you don't like it and don't give me that 'economic downturn husband's job' excuse. Not everyone can just get out.. Why do people say leave if you don't like it? You don't know peoples situations, you don't where they are from and what there is to offer. You have no clue about anyone aside from what they tell you on here. You can not assume that everyone came here willingly. You can not assume that the HUSBANDS job isn't the reason they are staying here. Some are also trapped here because they bought property at that over inflated cost and they can't afford to sell it now because they would lose and enormous amount of money. Can't just walk away here and let the bank foreclose on your property. You can actually wind up in jail. Most people don't want to go to jail. We are ONLY leaving because of the economic downturn of Dubai. I was the ONLY one in my household that didn't find that love of Dubai. IT's not that I didn't try. I stayed almost 5 years trying to find the "best" of Dubai. I tried to see past the negative things that occured every single day around me. I don't judge or begrudge people their love and like of this country. I think it's great that so many love it. But for ME it just wasn't my cup of tea. For my husband, he loved it until the very end. Only now is he seeing what I saw long ago because he has had too much time on his hands. I'm sorry BC, but you just seem bitter, and thats not attractive on anyone. I've not answered this post for some time because i wanted to fully appreciate what you have said, and I just can't shake off the bitterness. You say the economic downturn is the only reason youre leaving? Thats not like saying I can't stand the place, we're going. Please tell me your last 5 years here have not been just day after day of awfulness? I do agree whole heartedly with your posts on the draconian laws, freedoms etc etal but i must say, you do seem to have a problem with people who do like it here. By all means, relish your escape, but I would hope that you take more than this nasty perspective with you when you go. This place has nurtured, fed and educated all of you for 5 years, by the sweat of you and your husbands brow, please don't belittle that achievement. You came, you learnt, you saw...you did more in that 5 years than many do in a lifetime. Surely that is something to be celebrated?
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EW GURU
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 21:50
11 pages? Gee whiz! I actually take offense to your comment, Snitch. I'm pro Dubai and don't consider myself lacking in anything. I guess I have learnt to appreciate life for what it is, not complain about what it isn't or could/should be. If that means I'm lacking in something then I wonder what a 'full' person is like... Totally agree with you Amy, what a condescending remark from Snitch who I presume lives here. Really, ceebs to read through the whole thread coz it will just get me cross. Stop whinging and get out if you don't like it and don't give me that 'economic downturn husband's job' excuse. Not everyone can just get out.. Why do people say leave if you don't like it? You don't know peoples situations, you don't where they are from and what there is to offer. You have no clue about anyone aside from what they tell you on here. You can not assume that everyone came here willingly. You can not assume that the HUSBANDS job isn't the reason they are staying here. Some are also trapped here because they bought property at that over inflated cost and they can't afford to sell it now because they would lose and enormous amount of money. Can't just walk away here and let the bank foreclose on your property. You can actually wind up in jail. Most people don't want to go to jail. We are ONLY leaving because of the economic downturn of Dubai. I was the ONLY one in my household that didn't find that love of Dubai. IT's not that I didn't try. I stayed almost 5 years trying to find the "best" of Dubai. I tried to see past the negative things that occured every single day around me. I don't judge or begrudge people their love and like of this country. I think it's great that so many love it. But for ME it just wasn't my cup of tea. For my husband, he loved it until the very end. Only now is he seeing what I saw long ago because he has had too much time on his hands.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 21:43
Goodnight Snitch! *waving* Don't forget to hum! :) little miss sunshine :D
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 21:26
It seems I have royally ****** everyone off today, again, so perhaps time to call it a night. LOL. don't worry about it it's only a bit of fun after all xx
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 21:23
It seems I have royally ****** everyone off today, again, so perhaps time to call it a night.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 21:03
11 pages? Gee whiz! I actually take offense to your comment, Snitch. I'm pro Dubai and don't consider myself lacking in anything. I guess I have learnt to appreciate life for what it is, not complain about what it isn't or could/should be. If that means I'm lacking in something then I wonder what a 'full' person is like... Totally agree with you Amy, what a condescending remark from Snitch who I presume lives here. Really, ceebs to read through the whole thread coz it will just get me cross. Stop whinging and get out if you don't like it and don't give me that 'economic downturn husband's job' excuse.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 21:02
I agree, but for a few exceptions, the posters who are pro Dubai, always seem to come across as a bit, well, lacking in something. ROFLMAO! Snitch, this is especially for you! :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1fpj1248svE Well I thought that was a beautiful video and to add, I'm so impressed with my niece over here who is of Irish descent but can sing the local National Anthem word perfect. It's so great to see! I am of British descent and can sing the German National Anthem word perfect, does that make me special too?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 21:00
11 pages? Gee whiz! I actually take offense to your comment, Snitch. I'm pro Dubai and don't consider myself lacking in anything. I guess I have learnt to appreciate life for what it is, not complain about what it isn't or could/should be. If that means I'm lacking in something then I wonder what a 'full' person is like... Why would you take offence? Do you have feelings of inadequacy that you took my comment personally? I excluded a few posters from my equation, how do you know that you were not one of the few?
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 20:44
I agree, but for a few exceptions, the posters who are pro Dubai, always seem to come across as a bit, well, lacking in something. Lacking a negative attitude perhaps?.................
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 20:40
I agree, but for a few exceptions, the posters who are pro Dubai, always seem to come across as a bit, well, lacking in something. ROFLMAO! Snitch, this is especially for you! :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1fpj1248svE Well I thought that was a beautiful video and to add, I'm so impressed with my niece over here who is of Irish descent but can sing the local National Anthem word perfect. It's so great to see!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 20:36
They hummed all the way through the clip. Do you think they forgot the words?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 20:29
Also how can someone say London is a miserable place to live, it's huge! It depends where you live, if you live in a lovely part of Kensington it would be amazing in comparison to somewhere like Tower Hamlets for example. You really can't generalise about living in London! Interesting how the girl also said Dubai is not boing because there are lots of restaurants! Like everyone could afford to dine in a fancy restaurant here every night. and sorry, anyone who thinks that because there is a load of resturants is reason not to be bored is a vacuous numpty. haha those are the kind of people who can never be bored - they don't miss stuff that stimulates the brain, because they probably don't have one to start with ;) Exactly, there is the point. These types of people would never bore of Dubai. I agree, but for a few exceptions, the posters who are pro Dubai, always seem to come across as a bit, well, lacking in something.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:35
ok, question for those that are Bored In Dubai. Do you think it is because you have a different lifestyle to that at home, where maybe you worked or had to work. Do you think you would be as bored if you worked, and is there a reason why you don't? *opening chocolate digestives* *Hands Up* - I'm bored in Dubai. I work, which I enjoy, but I find the lifestyle generally boring! Although we have fun all together, I admit I'm bored of the same routine. The same weekend stuff. I miss going away for day picnics and overnight trips as we would at home. There is only so many times you can go to Fujeriah or RAK or one of the paid parks. Everything is the same, the malls are the same, the restaurants serve the same brunches week after week. At home I would be constantly planning renovations to the house, interior design - here it's a company house so its not allowed. The atmosphere - well there is none. JBR walk could be amazing but it just doesn't have atmosphere - so full of people yet so empty. [b'>Something is seriously missing but I just can't put my finger on it![/b'> That would be soul that is missing
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EW GURU
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:34
Mindless chatter... :D
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EW GURU
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:31
ok, question for those that are Bored In Dubai. Do you think it is because you have a different lifestyle to that at home, where maybe you worked or had to work. Do you think you would be as bored if you worked, and is there a reason why you don't? *opening chocolate digestives* *Hands Up* - I'm bored in Dubai. I work, which I enjoy, but I find the lifestyle generally boring! Although we have fun all together, I admit I'm bored of the same routine. The same weekend stuff. I miss going away for day picnics and overnight trips as we would at home. There is only so many times you can go to Fujeriah or RAK or one of the paid parks. Everything is the same, the malls are the same, the restaurants serve the same brunches week after week. At home I would be constantly planning renovations to the house, interior design - here it's a company house so its not allowed. The atmosphere - well there is none. JBR walk could be amazing but it just doesn't have atmosphere - so full of people yet so empty. Something is seriously missing but I just can't put my finger on it! The beaches? I truly struggle to understand how anyone can find Dubai beaches 'beautiful'. They are horrid! The dirty transported sand, there is no "beach" salt smell, no crashing waves, sand-dunes or grasses - again, no atmosphere :( edited by Pomegranate on 24/03/2011 <em>edited by Pomegranate on 24/03/2011</em>
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:30
Also how can someone say London is a miserable place to live, it's huge! [b'>It depends where you live, if you live in a lovely part of Kensington it would be amazing in comparison to somewhere like Tower Hamlets for example[/b'>. You really can't generalise about living in London! Interesting how the girl also said Dubai is not boing because there are lots of restaurants! Like everyone could afford to dine in a fancy restaurant here every night. I think where or how you live in Dubai has a huge impact on how you feel or look at the city. When we first came, was living in an apartment (company provided), one side of the apartment faced another building, the other side facing a busy road. The rooms were shaded for a good part of the day and it seemed to be always a bit dark inside. The balcony was permanently dusty (wasn't really useable) and it was just so depressing when I look back now. If anyone has lived in this situation in Dubai will probably understand how it feels. Not everyone has a sparkling sunny villa to enjoy. In the flat I yearned for a garden, to hear birds and "normality" like I had at home. Our living situation really pulled me down at the time. My husband changed his job which fantastically allowed for a villa, and it really changed our quality of life. May sound shallow to some, but it did! We enjoy our life here with together as a family, we make it the best we can behind our walls, but as a city in general, I don't like Dubai. I hear you about the move to a villa...after 2 years in our apartment, we are still in love with our ridiculously small shabby garden! moving into our 3rd year in it and the feeling still hasnt worn off. Sometimes I wonder if we would appreciate it quite so much if we hadnt had the 2 years in the apartment first?
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EW GURU
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:29
I do agree with pomegranate. It does depend where you live. Last week end I went to JBR to visit someone and I thought well you would have to pay me to live here , feel the same way around tecom and Al Nahda. I live in an older villa in Sharjah with large rooms and a very big garden. I am quite happy pottering about the garden after work and auring week ends.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:21
Also how can someone say London is a miserable place to live, it's huge! [b'>It depends where you live, if you live in a lovely part of Kensington it would be amazing in comparison to somewhere like Tower Hamlets for example[/b'>. You really can't generalise about living in London! Interesting how the girl also said Dubai is not boing because there are lots of restaurants! Like everyone could afford to dine in a fancy restaurant here every night. I think where or how you live in Dubai has a huge impact on how you feel or look at the city. When we first came, was living in an apartment (company provided), one side of the apartment faced another building, the other side facing a busy road. The rooms were shaded for a good part of the day and it seemed to be always a bit dark inside. The balcony was permanently dusty (wasn't really useable) and it was just so depressing when I look back now. If anyone has lived in this situation in Dubai will probably understand how it feels. Not everyone has a sparkling sunny villa to enjoy. In the flat I yearned for a garden, to hear birds and "normality" like I had at home. Our living situation really pulled me down at the time. My husband changed his job which fantastically allowed for a villa, and it really changed our quality of life. May sound shallow to some, but it did! We enjoy our life here with together as a family, we make it the best we can behind our walls, but as a city in general, I don't like Dubai.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:11
In regards to Snitches post, how do you seriously get to know locals here? I have been here for years and never met a local, where do you go to get this cultural experience? Also Jumeirah beach hotel is full of Russian tatooed chavs but not so much British ones. I have to deal with many locals (albeit AD) on an everyday basis and it makes my skin crawl at the abuse and racism I have witnessed. I simply would not wish to be friendly with anyone who deemed me to be less than they. I must of mis read your previous post I thought you said the locals here were lovely! A few are, I have found the men to be more open and respectful BUT the women are so oppressed, I do believe it has affected them mentally.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:08
In regards to Snitches post, how do you seriously get to know locals here? I have been here for years and never met a local, where do you go to get this cultural experience? Also Jumeirah beach hotel is full of Russian tatooed chavs but not so much British ones. I have to deal with many locals (albeit AD) on an everyday basis and it makes my skin crawl at the abuse and racism I have witnessed. I simply would not wish to be friendly with anyone who deemed me to be less than they. I must of mis read your previous post I thought you said the locals here were lovely!
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:03
Also how can someone say London is a miserable place to live, it's huge! It depends where you live, if you live in a lovely part of Kensington it would be amazing in comparison to somewhere like Tower Hamlets for example. You really can't generalise about living in London! Interesting how the girl also said Dubai is not boing because there are lots of restaurants! Like everyone could afford to dine in a fancy restaurant here every night. and sorry, anyone who thinks that because there is a load of resturants is reason not to be bored is a vacuous numpty.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:02
Also how can someone say London is a miserable place to live, it's huge! It depends where you live, if you live in a lovely part of Kensington it would be amazing in comparison to somewhere like Tower Hamlets for example. You really can't generalise about living in London! Interesting how the girl also said Dubai is not boing because there are lots of restaurants! Like everyone could afford to dine in a fancy restaurant here every night.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 18:01
In regards to Snitches post, how do you seriously get to know locals here? I have been here for years and never met a local, where do you go to get this cultural experience? Also Jumeirah beach hotel is full of Russian tatooed chavs but not so much British ones. I have to deal with many locals (albeit AD) on an everyday basis and it makes my skin crawl at the abuse and racism I have witnessed. I simply would not wish to be friendly with anyone who deemed me to be less than they.
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 17:58
In regards to Snitches post, how do you seriously get to know locals here? Ask Snitch that question. She seems to have interacted with lots of Emiratis.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 17:56
In regards to Snitches post, how do you seriously get to know locals here? I have been here for years and never met a local, where do you go to get this cultural experience? Also Jumeirah beach hotel is full of Russian tatooed chavs but not so much British ones.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 17:55
"Yes, which has resulted in ME nationals believing they are superior. This in turn has produced a nation of lazy, ignorant racists. Nothing to be proud of." - said by Snitch I am not bored anymore. I am sick of hearing these kinds of statements. Some Emiratis are lazy, ignorant, and racist, but I bet there are a bunch of Brits who are too. Emiratis have things to be proud of. I don't know why someone would choose to live in a country when they have such disdain for the people. I don't choose to live here.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 24 March 2011 - 17:52
"Yes, which has resulted in ME nationals believing they are superior. This in turn has produced a nation of lazy, ignorant racists. Nothing to be proud of." - said by Snitch I am not bored anymore. I am sick of hearing these kinds of statements. Some Emiratis are lazy, ignorant, and racist, but I bet there are a bunch of Brits who are too. Emiratis have things to be proud of. I don't know why someone would choose to live in a country when they have such disdain for the people. I agree with you, the locals I know are lovely and very hard working.
 
 

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