Pregnant - not married

Am a reasonably regular poster on EW, but had to set-up a new account for this. I can see this post getting lots of hits!!

Am divorced with kids and with my OH who I am very much in love with. We both know we have found our ONE in each other.

I am pregnant, 4 weeks Not a teenager! and can't believe this has happened.

Any ideas that may help stimulate my shocked brain will help.

Situation: OH has recently lost his job and is going back to his home country

We both have known that we would get married someday and completely in love with each other.

I am working, but one of unsaid terms of employment was 'No Pregnancy' which I didn't bother about as I had no intention of having any more kids.

My partner is from a different country as me.

Issues:

I will never have an abortion. No religious reasons, but my own values
We had absolutely no intention of having kids, we have enough between us two, but

Maybe we could get married, but I don't know how I feel about getting married because of a pregnancy. We would have done it eventually anyway, but it takes away my dream of getting married when we want to get married. We were to get married when he secures a job.

Looked at our options to get married and the embassy marriage will require at least 2.5 months. As we are from different countries, flying to either of our country to get married also requires at least 2 months of paper work/notice etc. Not sure about a Church marriage here, but as I was married in a church earlier I guess that's not an option. Apart from the Catholic Church is there any other Churches here who will marry a previously married and divorced couple?

Please please don't be harsh and judgemental about why I am pregnant in the first place - we were super careful and to add to it OH has a very low sperm count and been told he is bordering on infertile! - its almost as if this is a meant to be.

Excuse the incoherent message, its not sunk in yet.
edited to remove some personal information
<em>edited by Chocoa on 09/03/2011</em>